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When No One Is Watching
If you knew no one would ever find out, would you still do the same?
Original
Great Learning, commentary 6所謂誠其意者，毋自欺也。如惡惡臭，如好好色，此之謂自謙。故君子必慎其獨也。Great Learning, commentary 6小人閒居為不善，無所不至；見君子而后厭然，揜其不善，而著其善。Analects 17.21子曰：「食夫稻，衣夫錦，於女安乎？」曰：「安。」「女安，則為之！」The Mean, ch. 1莫見乎隱，莫顯乎微，故君子慎其獨也。In plain words
Making your intentions sincere means not deceiving yourself: as plainly as you hate a foul smell and love a lovely sight. This is called being content with yourself. So the noble person is always careful when alone.
The small person, at leisure and alone, does wrong; there is nothing he won't do. Seeing a person of worth, he turns furtive, covers up the wrong and shows off the good.
Confucius said: “Eating fine rice and wearing brocade (before the mourning is over): would you be at ease?” “At ease.” “If you would be at ease, then do it!”
Nothing is more visible than what is hidden, nothing plainer than what is slight. So the noble person is careful when alone.
Key words
- 慎獨shèn dúTaking care when alone, when no one else would know.
- 自謙zì qièRead as 慊: content with yourself, at peace inside.
- 安ānEase of heart: Confucius' one-word test of sincerity.
Reading it step by step
Last page, sincerity was a road you choose each day. This page takes the question to its hardest place: the moments no one sees.
There's an old Greek story about a shepherd who finds a ring that makes him invisible, and then does everything he never dared. The question is simple. If you were certain no one would know, would you still keep the rules?
First: the Great Learning says sincere intention means not fooling yourself. An intention is the first thought that rises. Picture a banknote lying on an empty street late at night. The first thought is usually right: this isn't mine. Then the second and third arrive: “it's been here for ages,” “the owner won't miss it.” Sincere intention means checking that first thought against what you know of right and wrong before the excuses get there. The Great Learning's image is blunt: be like someone who frowns at a bad smell and warms to a lovely sight, with no second calculation in between. Do that, and you are content with yourself.
Like hating a foul smell, loving a lovely sight: no second calculation.
Second: the Great Learning is also honest about us. “The small person, at leisure and alone, does wrong; there is nothing he won't do.” The small person here is no villain, just an ordinary person with no aim, drifting. Alone, he'll do anything; meeting someone of worth, he hurries to hide it and shows only his good side. Many readers keep only that second half and treat the hiding as proof that we are good already. A plainer reading says the first half is our ordinary behaviour, and the shame in the second half shows a pull toward good that still has to be grown. The Great Learning adds: people see through you as if they could see your lungs and liver. What use is hiding?
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Care when alone: with people or without, one and the same.
Third: Confucius and the Mean move the watcher inside. When his student Zai Wo wanted to cut the three years of mourning short, Confucius didn't quote rules. He asked one thing: “Would you be at ease?” No one can answer that for you. The Mean says: “Nothing is more visible than what is hidden, nothing plainer than what is slight.” The hidden place shows most, because you see all of it yourself. So the noble person is careful when alone. Not from fear of being caught, but so that with people or without them, you are one and the same person.
Today it looks like this: the two hours working from home when no one checks; the extra line you could add to an expense claim; the cruel comment you're tempted to post under a name no one knows. There's no camera in those moments. Only the question: is my heart at ease?
Who you are alone is who you are.
Who you are alone is who you are.
Today's question
Write down one small thing only you know about: what did you do when no one was looking? Was your heart at ease?
Quick check
In the Great Learning's line about the “small person” alone, who is meant?
Not a villain but anyone without an aim, which is why care when alone is everyone's homework.
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