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Laozi in 30 Pages

I Have Three Treasures

If you could carry only three things through life, what would they be?

I have three treasures compassionfrugalitybehind 宝

Original

我有三寶，持而保之：一曰慈，二曰儉，三曰不敢為天下先。慈故能勇；儉故能廣；不敢為天下先，故能成器長。今舍慈且勇，舍儉且廣，舍後且先，死矣！夫慈，以戰則勝，以守則固。天將救之，以慈衛之。

In plain words

I have three treasures that I hold and keep. The first is compassion, the second is frugality, the third is not daring to be first in the world. Because of compassion, one can be brave. Because of frugality, one can reach far. Because one does not dare to be first, one can become the leader of all. Now, to drop compassion and still be brave, to drop frugality and still reach far, to drop the back place and still go first: that is death. Compassion wins when it fights and holds firm when it defends. When heaven means to save someone, it guards them with compassion.

Key words

  • 慈cíA mother's kind of love: it holds everything and gives up on no one.
  • 儉jiǎnNot wasting: treasuring things and wanting less.
  • 器長qì zhǎngIn old usage 器 can mean people; the 器长 is the one people follow.

Reading it step by step

For twenty-three pages we have looked at a world in disorder, at the Dao, and at the sage who acts without forcing. The last theme asks the plainest question: how do you actually live this, day to day? Confucius once named his life's aims. Laozi names none. He simply hands us three things and calls them treasures.

First: the first treasure is 慈, and it is a mother's word. For Laozi the Dao is the mother of all things, and everything in the world is its child. To look at people and things from the Dao is to look at them the way a mother looks at her children: accept first, everything else after. “From compassion comes courage.” A mother who is gentle all year will not hesitate for a second when her child is in danger. That courage has a source. It grows from the inside; it is not a flash of temper.

Second: every treasure works by stepping back. Compassion gives courage; frugality gives reach; not rushing to be first makes you the one others follow. Frugality is not meanness. It means not wasting, so there is always something left over to share. Stay behind the crowd, and people will ask you to lead. This is Laozi's favourite move, words that sound backwards: it looks like subtraction and turns out to be addition.

compassiona mother's eyes
couragewith a source
frugalityno waste
reachsomething left to share
behindnot rushing to be first
leadershippeople choose to follow

Each treasure: step back, and gain

Third: the heaviest words are “that is death.” Courage without compassion, reach without frugality, the front without the back: each one grabs the fruit and throws away the root. Courage with no care in it is bravado. Reach with no frugality is debt. Leading with no humility is shoving. Elsewhere Laozi says that daring to act gets you killed, while daring not to act keeps you alive. Think of friends egging you on when you were young: dare you jump in the river? Dare you climb that cliff? Answer “yes” every time and you would have been hurt long ago. A firm “no” takes courage too. And the chapter ends: when heaven means to protect someone, it guards them with compassion.

fruit with a root

care → courage · thrift → reach · behind → aheadit holds

fruit without a root

courage without care, reach without thrift, ahead without behind

“that is death”: bravado, debt, shoving

Bring it home. On a crowded bus everyone is seated when an elderly woman gets on. Standing up to offer your seat takes a little courage: people look, and someone may think you are showing off. Real care supplies that courage. So it is with speaking up for a colleague who has been wrongly blamed. Courage that comes from care holds. The person who is hard only in order to win may win once and pay for years. Money works the same way: overspend every month and no plan, however grand, will last.

This theme's seven pages take the treasures out one by one. For today, remember the order: compassion is the root, and the other two grow from it.

One line to carry

Compassion is the root; courage and reach are its fruit.

Elsewhere on the shelf

Today's question

Which of the three treasures do you lack most right now? Write down one specific moment this week when you could practise it.

Quick check

Laozi says dropping compassion to be brave “is death.” What goes wrong?

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