Confucius in 30 Pages
Three Months Without Tasting Meat
When did music last move you so much that you forgot everything around you?
Original
子在齊聞《韶》，三月不知肉味，曰：「不圖為樂之至於斯也。」In plain words
In the state of Qi, Confucius heard the Shao music, and for three months he could not taste the meat he ate. He said: “I never imagined music could reach such heights.”
Key words
- 韶sháoAncient music in praise of the sage-king Shun; grand and rarely performed.
- 不圖bù túNever expected, never imagined.
- 盡善jìn shànConfucius said the Shao was “perfectly beautiful and perfectly good”: flawless in form and in what it stands for.
Reading it step by step
Yesterday: friends gathered through culture. Today Confucius sits alone in the state of Qi, listening to music, so moved that meat loses its taste.
First: the senses are connected. When one sense is shaken to the core, the others step back. Where the heart goes, attention follows. Great music doesn't just please the ears; it lifts the whole person, and in that state even a fine meal tastes of nothing. Some punctuate the line differently, “heard the Shao for three months,” as if he listened for three months straight. But the Shao needed a large orchestra and was rarely performed, so that seems unlikely. The number of days isn't the point. The point is the experience of being carried away entirely.
Second: only humans make music. The ancients distinguished three layers. Thunder, birdsong and barking are sound. Humans shape sound into tone that carries meaning. And when feeling overflows and words run short, we stretch the tones, repeat them, weave them together: that is music. So music belongs to us, and nothing tunes our emotions better, even when we can't follow the words. One listener who loved Italian tenors asked an Italian scholar to put the lyrics into English; the scholar scratched his head for ages.
He gave up on learning Italian, and still listens every night, moved all the same. Nietzsche said that without music, life would be a mistake. Confucius sang too. His students noted that on a day he had wept, he did not sing. He often helped run funerals and wept at them, so for the note to read like a rule, he must have sung on most other days. When someone sang well, he would ask them to sing it again and join in with the harmony, like friends at karaoke.
Only humans make and enjoy music
Third: beauty is tied to goodness. Of the Shao, Confucius said: “Perfectly beautiful, and perfectly good.” Of the Wu, the music praising King Wu: “Perfectly beautiful, but not perfectly good.” Both were flawless in form. Nor was it the lyrics: Zhou surely had people who could write good words. The difference was the life being celebrated. Shun reigned for more than fifty years and his virtue reached everyone.
King Wu's overthrow of Shang was just, in step with Heaven and the people, but he reigned only about six years. News travelled slowly; many places hardly knew Shang had fallen, and his brother, the Duke of Zhou, still had rebellions to put down. His goodness never had time to reach everyone. For Confucius, beauty finally comes back to whether human life is made better by it. This isn't a leash on art. It says the deepest beauty makes us more fully human.
Shao · Shun
virtue spread everywhere
Wu · King Wu
six years' reign; virtue not yet spread
The deepest beauty comes back to making life good
Today music is always at hand, and mostly it is background: on the commute, at the desk, while scrolling, one track after another. Confucius shows another way to listen. One piece at a time, doing nothing else, letting it carry you off.
Tonight, close the other screens and listen to one piece all the way through. You might find yourself thinking: I never imagined music could do this.
One piece at a time. Let the music carry you off.
Today's question
What music once made you forget the taste of food? Why did it move you so much? Did it make you better in some way?
Quick check
Why was the Shao “perfectly good” but the Wu “not perfectly good”?
Both were perfectly beautiful; the difference was the goodness of the life they celebrated.
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